A Sermon in Wichita

FWCC representatives from across the Americas– from diverse contexts, perspectives, and languages– met for worship in Wichita Kansas, and listened to a message on Amos 5:18-24 offered by University Friends pastor Charity Sandstrom about the daily work of our faith, which does not change, even as the political circumstances that we find ourselves in in each of our countries do.

Volunteers, Representatives and staff for FWCC Americas attended University Friends Meeting last Sunday in Wichita, KS.

Amos 5:18-24 NRSVUE
The Day of the Lord a Dark Day
18 Woe to you who desire the day of the Lord!
Why do you want the day of the Lord?
It is darkness, not light,
19 as if someone fled from a lion
and was met by a bear
or went into the house and rested a hand against the wall
and was bitten by a snake.
20 Is not the day of the Lord darkness, not light,
and gloom with no brightness in it?
21 I hate, I despise your festivals,
and I take no delight in your solemn assemblies.
22 Even though you offer me your burnt offerings and grain offerings,
I will not accept them,
and the offerings of well-being of your fatted animals
I will not look upon.
23 Take away from me the noise of your songs;
I will not listen to the melody of your harps.
24 But let justice roll down like water
and righteousness like an ever-flowing stream.

James 1:19-27 NRSVUE
Hearing and Doing the Word

19 You must understand this, my beloved brothers and sisters: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger, 20 for human anger does not produce God’s righteousness.[ justice] 21 Therefore rid yourselves of all sordidness and rank growth of wickedness, and welcome with meekness the implanted word that has the power to save your souls.
22 But be doers of the word and not merely hearers who deceive themselves. 23 For if any are hearers of the word and not doers, they are like those who look at themselves[d] in a mirror; 24 for they look at themselves and, on going away, immediately forget what they were like. 25 But those who look into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and persevere, being not hearers who forget but doers who act—they will be blessed in their doing.
26 If any think they are religious and do not bridle their tongues but deceive their hearts, their religion is worthless. 27 Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to care for orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself unstained by the world

Charity Kemper Sandstrom is an author and Quaker pastor, currently serving University Friends Church in Wichita, KS. She has three great kids, a love for Jesus, and possibly a mild caffeine dependency. Charity considers herself an ecumenical and occasionally liturgical Friend, with a passion for sharing the love of God. 

In November we are looking at four difficult themes: Grief & Remembrance, Injustice & Action, Disillusionment & Hope, Change & Growth. All of these hard things are common human experiences, and as the darkness sets in for the winter, we are holding these experiences in our hands and asking “What do we do with this hard thing?” This morning we are holding the difficult experience of injustice.
The text from Amos that was just read sets us up nicely to talk about how we usually respond to difficulty. Like children who say, “My dad can beat up your dad” in response to a perceived slight, the Children of Israel saw themselves as victims of injustice. They wanted the day of the Lord to come, so that everything could be set right. They wanted their enemies to suffer. They wanted God to sweep away evil. They were calling for it, expecting it with eager anticipation, and the prophet interrupts to say, “What in the world are you thinking? Do you really think evil is only located in your enemies?”

Why do you want the day of the Lord to come? It is darkness and not light. You hate your enemies, but do you not see the injustice that comes from your own hands? God is not interested in your festivals, rituals, and rites. Away with the noise of your worship. Instead let justice roll down like mighty waters.
It’s a good thing that was just a “them problem,” right? We certainly don’t respond the same way today, right? Oh, no, wait. I guess we are all suffering from a human problem. It is so very human to locate the source of the problem out there somewhere. We don’t want to look at ourselves, our actions. We want God to be on our side, we need it to be true. We need the certainty that I am on the right team, they are on the wrong team, and we are going to win. We will go to many lengths to convince ourselves it is true.

In this year of political strife, and we are not likely finished with the fallout of the election season, the rhetoric of “us versus them” has been intense. And the arguments presented did not serve to change anyone’s mind, rather to intensify the hate and fear of one side toward the other. In a University of London study, researchers wanted to know whether people responded primarily to factual evidence or their preexisting desire for their cause or candidate to win. What they found was that when people were presented with evidence that supported their point of view, they added that information to their sense of confidence that they would see their desired outcome. When presented with evidence that countered their point of view, they held firm to their opinion and dismissed the information. When we are engaging in “us versus them” rhetoric, it is easy to invest ourselves more heavily in being loyal to our cause than to the truth we hold dear. We set aside the values and principles God calls us to demonstrate in our lives.
The prophet Amos tells the people that their religious practices will not convince God to be on their side, only participating in creating a more just society will please God. Calling for God to bring vengeance for those who are participating in injustice will only call down judgment on their own heads if they are not careful. Not just here, but many times in the prophets, we hear that God is more interested in justice than sacrifice, more interested in a society and culture in which the poor are cared for, where the marginalized are brought to the center than one where all the rules for religious festivals are followed. Jesus picks this up in the Gospels as he told religious leaders they were more concerned with tithing their garden herbs than practicing justice and mercy. Paul tells everyone in Romans 2 that when we judge others we heap condemnation on our own heads because we do the same things.

James picks up this theme in our New Testament scripture this morning. Set aside anger. Listen instead. Human anger cannot bring about God’s justice. Remember the word in the Greek for righteousness is the same as justice. And what does James instruct us to do? He tells us to take action. Stop talking about it, and act. Stop reading about it, and act. Stop complaining about it, and act. Care for the widows, the orphans, and step away from the ways of the world.
Too often in our modern era of internet advocacy on social media, we think we have done our part if we like, share, and post the causes we care about. We think we have done our part if we go to vote once every four years. We put the responsibility of bringing about a just society on the shoulders of political and government leaders. We stop paying attention to the policies and laws that are being passed because the person we voted for won. We trust them and we don’t actually want to know if they will follow through. Or the person we voted for lost, and we give up. We decide nothing we do will matter anyway.

The reality is that justice is not lived out on the grand scale of national politics. Can we legislate changes? Yes, but unless there is agreement among everyday citizens all we do is drive injustice underground. Think with me for a minute about race relations in this country. We outlawed slavery on the national level. I agree with that decision. But what followed were 100 years of oppression in smaller laws and regulations passed at the state and local levels that imprisoned and legally re-enslaved many people of color for simply not having a job. Laws that kept black men and women from voting, even after a constitutional amendment. Laws that kept citizens of color from equal access to education, and public accommodations.

We saw activism in the middle of last century that led to desegregation of schools and other public services, the voting rights act that enfranchised voters of color for the first time in a meaningful way. I agree with these changes. But they did not end racism. Racism became subdued, expressed behind closed doors or in euphemisms and dog-whistles. People stopped saying the quiet part out loud, but they kept their biases against black people. Institutions and policies continued to disproportionately affect the daily lives of people of color. And those not directly affected could pretend that everything was ok, and racism was a thing of the past.

Why am I critiquing the practice of legislating change on a national level? I support lobbying for change on any level and through any legitimate means of making a more just society. I want the government to make good laws that lead to good lives for every person in the country. I believe good policy matters. But I believe there is something that matters more—you and I choosing justice and mercy every day.
What do we remember about the days of slavery? Quakers on the underground railroad seeking the good of their neighbor, and slave patrols hunting those seeking freedom. What do we remember about the Civil Rights movement? People on the ground either marching for peace or protesting angrily at school integration. What do you think makes more of a real difference in a neighborhood—community members who connect and care for each other, or a law that says they have to be civil?

We don’t have to wait for government policy to treat our neighbor with kindness. We don’t have to wait for the supreme court to deem goodness constitutional. We can get busy feeding the hungry or clothing the naked or visiting those who are sick or imprisoned. We can practice religion that God our Creator accepts right now. We can care for the widow and the orphan. We can let justice roll down like mighty waters and righteousness flow like a never-ending stream. We can do that regardless of who won an election. We can do that whether the ballot measure we wanted passed or not. We can choose every day to walk in step with the Spirit, love our neighbor, and lift up those in need.

We can choose to love our enemies. It is what we are called to as followers of Jesus. Love for enemy does not mean agreeing with them. It does mean seeking their good, working to create a world where they can live with respect and dignity. If we are tearing down the other side, we have already lost. Human anger does not bring about the justice of God.
That doesn’t mean you can’t be angry about injustice. It doesn’t mean you can’t tell the truth about your experiences of being mistreated. It doesn’t mean you have to bypass the negative feelings that accompany the realization that something is wrong in government or society, or your family or your neighborhood. Be upset. But take a pause. Take a moment to remember the person in front of you—even the one working injustice—is a beloved child of God. Then you can work for wholeness, healing and peace, even as you tell the hard truth and seek for systemic change.

We are all responsible for creating a community and culture of justice. We are not off the hook because of election results. We are responsible to act. And when we act in alignment with our values, with the principles of Jesus, with the working of Spirit among us, we create change from the ground up.

As we tune our hearts to listen in a time of Quaker worship, can we ask Spirit to show us the truth of our own hearts? Can we trust Christ to teach us how to live day by day in ways that add to the justice and peace of our communities? Can we allow our Creator to remind us that we are beloved Image bearers, and in that reminder accept that of God in the person before us even those who would decide we are their enemy? Let us now try what love would do.

Friends World Committee for Consultation Receives $1.125 Million Grant for Quaker Connect

The Friends World Committee for Consultation, Section of the Americas—the global fellowship association for the Religious Society of Friends—has received a $1.125 million grant from Lilly Endowment Inc. through its Thriving Congregations Initiative to help establish Quaker Connect, a program designed to reinvigorate the Quaker movement. 

FWCC Americas recently hired Jade Rockwell as the program director. Jade joins FWCC Americas from West Elkton (OH) Friends Meeting, where she serves as Co-Pastor. She is pursuing a Masters of Divinity with an emphasis on Pastoral Ministry from Earlham School of Religion. 

“I’m pleased to join FWCC Americas as the program director for Quaker Connect,” Jade said. “In this role I’m thrilled to dedicate my life work toward revitalizing Quakerism to reflect its beautiful diversity.”

“Quaker Connect is responding to the need of local Friends to develop a spirit of experimentation in partnership with God to support the members of their meetings and engage in issues important to their communities,” said Robin Mohr, Executive Secretary for FWCC Americas. “Quaker Connect will equip Quaker churches to be more clearly who they are meant to be: profoundly Quaker, deeply rooted, and highly visible in their local community. We are very pleased that Jade Rockwell has joined us at this pivotal point.”

Friends meetings and churches who wish to be considered for the first cohort of the Quaker Connect program should check the FWCC Americas website, QuakerConnect.org, for updates. The application period is planned to open in September 2024. 

In the United States, the project is being funded through Lilly Endowment’s Thriving Congregations Initiative. An additional $200,000 grant from the Thomas H. and Mary Williams Shoemaker Fund will extend the program to Friends outside of the United States—from Canada to Bolivia—and enhance collaboration among Quaker organizations to support the growth and vitality of the Society of Friends.

Quaker Connect will be a structured network of Quaker meetings across the branches of Friends in the Americas. Each participating local meeting will nominate two to three Friends to join a cohort of other energized Friends in virtual workshops over a two year period. At the heart of the program, each meeting will choose one signpost of renewal that is lacking in their meeting, one Quaker, Christian, or FWCC practice to address the need, and take three months to try the experiment, and then initiate further experiments. Robust evaluation and communication processes are essential parts of the program. Quaker Connect is designed to adapt and seed the continuing revitalization of the Religious Society of Friends. 

FWCC Americas is one of 104 organizations that has received grants through a competitive round of Lilly Endowment’s Thriving Congregations Initiative. Reflecting a wide variety of Christian traditions, the organizations represent mainline Protestant, evangelical, Catholic, Orthodox, peace church and Pentecostal faith communities.

“Congregations play an essential role in deepening the faith of individuals and contributing to the vitality of communities,” said Christopher L. Coble, Lilly Endowment’s vice president for religion. “We hope that these programs will nurture the vibrancy and spark the creativity of congregations, helping them imagine new ways to share God’s love in their communities and across the globe.”

About Lilly Endowment Inc.

Lilly Endowment Inc. is a private foundation created in 1937 by J.K. Lilly Sr. and his sons Eli and J.K. Jr. through gifts of stock in their pharmaceutical business, Eli Lilly and Company. While those gifts remain the financial bedrock of the Endowment, it is a separate entity from the company, with a distinct governing board, staff and location. In keeping with the founders’ wishes, the Endowment supports the causes of community development, education and religion and maintains a special commitment to its hometown, Indianapolis, and home state, Indiana. A principal aim of the Endowment’s religion grantmaking is to deepen and enrich the lives of Christians in the United States, primarily by seeking out and supporting efforts that enhance the vitality of congregations and strengthen the pastoral and lay leadership of Christian communities. The Endowment also seeks to improve public understanding of diverse religious traditions by supporting fair and accurate portrayals of the role religion plays in the United States and across the globe.

About Shoemaker

The Thomas H. and Mary Williams Shoemaker Fund, established by the 1936 and 1953 wills of Thomas Howard Shoemaker and Mary Williams Shoemaker, is a private, trustee-managed foundation with five volunteer, self-perpetuating distributing trustees. Since the death of Mary Shoemaker, approximately $9 million has been distributed to selected charities, including Friends meetings and Quaker-related organizations primarily in the Philadelphia area.

In recent years, the Shoemaker Trustees have become increasingly concerned about the future vitality and membership of the Religious Society of Friends. As a result, the  Fund has shifted its focus to organizations that are investing specifically in the growth and development of the Society of Friends. In this spirit, the Fund is providing major support for new and collaborative initiatives developed by organizations that provide leadership, innovation and resources which address this strategic goal.

About FWCC Americas

The Friends World Committee for Consultation (FWCC) is the global fellowship association for the Religious Society of Friends, or Quakers, also known as the Friends Church. In the Americas, the Quaker community extends from the Arctic to the Andes, spanning a rich diversity of regional cultures, beliefs and styles of worship. www.fwccamericas.org 

As Oil from Gethsemane

On Friendship, and “Becoming the Quakers the World Needs”

A message given by Noah Merrill at the FWCC Americas 2023 Section Meeting

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Good evening, Friends.

Just after I was born, I am told, my mother brought me to my first meeting for worship. She used to say that I had attended many before that, while she was carrying me in her womb, before I was born. I remember glimpses of those early years—mostly in images and sensations. But most of all, I remember the sense of coming home that met me in that worship, one that has continued to meet me throughout my life, a sense of spiritual intimacy, belonging, and relationship that has never left me, no matter the storms and struggles that might come. Thank you, Mom, for so many gifts. Thank you for the gift of bringing me home to Friends.

Many of you may know that my mother passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Thursday, just after I had arrived to join those gathered in North Carolina. I am deeply sorry not to be able to be with all of you who are gathered there this week, but I am grateful to be with my family in this time of grief, and for this opportunity to be together with you and our wider community of Friends around the world tonight. And
I am deeply thankful for the many expressions of care, support, condolence, and prayer shared by so many of you in the hours since then. On behalf of our family, thank you.

The connections so many of us are experiencing as part of this Section Meeting are difficult or impossible to make in any other ways, anywhere else in the world. And in these times of division, distrust, and grief, tending to and strengthening loving relationships among us as the People of God called Friends has never been more important.

Across the Americas, we who are gathering have lost neighbors, loved ones, dear Friends. Many Friends faith communities—and the wider communities in which we live, work, and serve—have been devastated, whether by the immediate loss of health and life from illness, or by related losses: economic instability, deprivation, and collapse, restrictions on travel, disruptions of access to basic needs, or the social atrophy that has left many of us lonely, fragmented, unsure of what the future holds. Some of us find ourselves restless and unsatisfied, even in relative comfort.

From the Arctic to the Andes, recent years have brought political polarization, instability, and strife. There is growing suffering and insecurity, worsened by climate chaos. In many of our societies, bonds of civil discourse and relationship, already tenuous, have eroded further— sometimes seeming to unravel entirely. In many places, there is ebbing faith in institutions to save us. Ideologies—no matter how loudly or passionately proclaimed—no longer hold the reassuring or motivating power they once did for many. In the cultures around us, there is increased loneliness and fear.

Truly, this is an in-between time; a threshold between worlds. The signs are all around us. Things will not return to the way they were. The rhythms of communal life, the stable approaches of our Friends institutions—our local meetings and yearly meetings and wider fellowships like the Friends World Committee—don’t seem to be working in the ways we’ve come to trust. And yet, amidst all that is changing, it is difficult to imagine the future yet to come.

Our theme for this gathering is, “Becoming the Quakers the World Needs.” When I was invited to share with you tonight with this focus, I wrestled in prayer with the invitation. The theme seemed to suggest some significant things about which I was not sure I had much to offer. Trusting the discernment of the organizers, I knew there was something more to be discovered here. So I listened, in patience, and in prayer for what I might be given.

The first thing that the theme seems to suggest is that the world needs something, and that we—here, together—might be able to discover what that something is. It also seems to imply that this something might have to do with us—as people living our faith in these times rooted in the tradition and testimony of the Religious Society of Friends.

The second suggestion is that we are not now—perhaps we aren’t anymore, if we ever were, or perhaps we are not yet—who we need to be in some sense, in order to help the world receive this something.

And the third—perhaps most significant of all—is that there might be some way that we —us here together, gathered in person and across the miles—might participate in a process of becoming that will allow us to respond in a meaningful sense to the needs of the world, in these times we have been given.

So tonight I want to invite you to come with me in an exploration of our theme. I want to share some stories from our living tradition. And I hope, in this brief time, that we will find a fresh reminder of the invitation to a shared journey together as a People being gathered into covenant with God and one another.

The first story I’d like to share is about that something that the world needs. It begins, as so many things in my experience of the work of the Section of the Americas, with an unexpected text message.

My dear Friend Myron Guachalla and I have known each other for several years through the work of the Friends World Committee. Last year, unexpectedly, Myron sent me a message. As part of his service helping prepare for the World Plenary next year and his service on the Central Executive Committee, he was flying back from Nairobi to Bolivia, and had been able to arrange a stopover in Boston. Given how close he would be to my home a few hours away in Vermont, he asked, could we meet?

On the day he was scheduled to fly home, Myron and I met in Boston. We found a park near the harbor, the site of an old maritime fortress that has been destroyed and rebuilt many times over. The place had been used, in the earliest days of European colonization in the region I call home, to house Indigenous prisoners of war before they were sold into slavery. From the fortress island, a bridge led to a long breakwater arcing out into the water, toward the harbor islands, and beyond that, to the endless ocean. Afterwards, we agreed, I would drive him to the airport for his journey home.

We walked together along that breakwater, surrounded by wind and water, in a place between sea and land and sky, in a place in time between arrival and departure, between the tragedies and diversity of our shared history in this hemisphere on one side, and a future beyond knowing on the other. In the midst of our journeys, we walked together in a time set apart.

And as we walked, we reflected on these years since we’d last been together in person. We shared our stories. We spoke about our illnesses with COVID, about the struggles, griefs, and joys of Friends in our local contexts. How our walk with God had unfolded, our learning to pray and listen for God’s guidance. And we spoke about our sense of the condition of the body of Friends, and the condition of our world. We asked each other, as our theme seems to be asking, “What does the world need now?” and
“What are we able to offer, as Friends?”

I remember Myron’s clarity reflecting on a conversation he’d had the evening before with some people he’d met in the city, who had been inspired by their own encounters with the Quaker movement, and the many good works in which Friends locally were engaged, past and present.

There is so much work that needs to be done, he said, important work in which Friends may be led to be involved, so much that Quaker individuals and organizations are already doing—social action, service and presence and witness, living with integrity in our lives and livelihoods, reaching for a more just and inclusive world.

And yet maybe, he said, what is needed now isn’t just urgent action, more advocacy and lobbying and training and demonstrating, more proposals, petitions, and programs. Maybe what the world needs is not just our actions. Maybe it’s not our works, however fruitful and significant or strategic they may be. Maybe what the world needs, he said, is what inspires these things. Myron’s words resonated deeply in me, and have ever since. Maybe the World needs not the fruits of our faith, but the Root of it. What the world needs is the Source of our Hope.

Maybe you’re like me. At times in these years, that Hope has felt far off. I’ve wrestled with disillusionment. In service in institutional leadership on behalf of Friends communities in the northeastern United States, in gospel ministry, and in my relationships with Friends and neighbors in the places in which I live and work and serve, the separation and relentless strain of these years have worn me down. I’ve grown numb. I’ve struggled to pray, and God’s voice, so full of assurance at times, has grown quiet. In seeking to accompany Friends as we’ve navigated the storms of these years, I’ve been brought to a reckoning with a difficult truth. For many Friends communities, particularly in my experience in parts of the United States, the spiritual grounding that has knit our faith communities together has been revealed as fragile and brittle. In many places, our shared understanding of the guidance of what our tradition has to offer—has not been resilient enough to encompass the suffering, anxiety, disconnection, and disillusionment of these times. I confess that the roots of my faith have not been deep enough. I share in the broken-heartedness for where the roots of our faith have not been deep enough. And I know I’m not the only one who has come to this painful realization. Many of us, and many of our meeting communities, have lost something.

 

And yet, I know from experience that it is in the driest of times that our roots learn to reach more deeply to seek the Living Water, more deeply than they ever have before.

And so preparing for this time together, I’ve been praying, and listening for guidance for how I—and we—might rediscover that Hope.

Often, when I don’t know where to turn, I go back to the beginning.

I believe in beginnings. There is a power, I have found, in returning to how things got started, and in seeking to understand what lessons those beginnings might still have to teach us.

However painful or mysterious, we need to try to understand our beginnings. There is an Arabic proverb: When we have no past, we have no future. Rufus Jones, the 20th century North American Quaker who did so much to establish what would become the Friends World Committee, warned that absent a living relationship with the Spirit that animated our beginnings, we would soon become like cut flowers—beautiful now for a moment, but in some sense already dead.

I believe that the path to rediscovering and reclaiming our Hope runs back to our beginnings as a church, as a Religious Society.

So: what might our beginnings have to teach us about what the world needs, and about a process of becoming that helps this something to come more fully into the world today?

Most of us have heard the words George Fox used to describe his convincement, from his Journal. Words which have, for generations, formed our understanding of the discovery that birthed the Quaker movement. He wrote,

For these first Quakers, the life-giving joy of discovering that human beings could directly experience the inward voice of this Living Christ reoriented their lives, and kindled a movement. And alongside this, the promise that, not only could we hear this guiding voice and experience this liberating power individually, but that, as each of us yielded to it in our own hearts, we would experience it together. Francis Howgill writes of one of these early experiences of being drawn in to covenant community:

But here’s the part we quote less often, which follows immediately:

Here’s what I hope we might hear in this: The discovery of early Friends was a discovery of communion with a personal Presence. Coming to know and welcome this Presence, and allowing it to find a home in us, gives birth to a relationship—this is not something that is built, it is something that is given. A covenantal relationship which we must always choose, but for which we are chosen first.

This is founded on vulnerability, born of despair of the world and its power. As George Fox recounts his life-changing insight, the world doesn’t need us to save it. The world needs a living testimony to the Love that alone can save us from ourselves.

In these times, in the society in which I live, this is an unpopular message. In some circles, it’s even taken as theological malpractice, because of the ways this teaching has been used, especially for many of us who know the wounds of exclusion and marginalization, as justification to diminish our God-given capacities, to tear us down or beat us up. And yet, there is no avoiding it, if we take the testimony of our spiritual ancestors and the elders amongst us seriously. Quakerism is a path of descent, and not of personal triumph. We are invited to yield, to surrender all that we are, trusting that we will find on the other side the journey home, a fullness of life beyond what we could have demanded or created or
imagined.

This discovery was an essential part of our beginning. And yet, times as dry as these draw our roots deeper. Because of course, our journey as Friends didn’t begin in the 1650s. Our name came from somewhere. There’s a reason we call ourselves Friends. And this “Friendship”, I believe, has everything to do with the source of our Hope, and how it might be shared. It has everything to do with this becoming.

Given its essential significance in our own tradition, the name we use to greet one another and to describe our movement across the Americas and globally, it seems important to pay attention to the context of how Jesus came to call us “Friends.” It began over dinner one night, in an upper room in Jerusalem, two thousand years ago.

The Gospel of John relates that after they had shared the evening meal, Jesus offered what would be his final message to the disciples before his crucifixion. It was in this last teaching, when he knew that the hour was drawing near when he would be betrayed, arrested, tortured, and executed, that he said these words:

So: Jesus has told them “everything”. And yet, the gospel narratives don’t seem to have understood this.

The next acts taken by the disciples described in the biblical narrative are 1) to fall asleep, 2) to betray Jesus to his persecutors, 3) to attempt murder to prevent Jesus from being arrested, in disobedience of Jesus’ instructions, and 4) to abandon Jesus, which all of them did, except some few faithful women. None of the men. Through all of this, they protested that they would never do these things, even as they did them. And they demonstrated, again and again, that they did not know everything, that they did not understand.

So I want to address the elephant in the room, the obvious issue here. According to our understanding of it now, of course, what Jesus says is not true. The disciples did not fully know, they did not understand the fullness of what was to come.

This is obvious from the narrative. It was only later, looking back through the profound reorientation of their hearts—and of Creation—begun in the Resurrection. And this understanding in light of the Resurrection is the voice that narrates the Gospels. When they were first called Friends, they did not understand what was to come.

And yet, the writers of the Gospels chose to explicitly include the disciples’ lack of understanding of “what the master was doing” when they wrote the story later—so the fact that they did not yet understand, when Jesus called them Friends, must have been important to the writers of the Gospel narrative. Here, in the beginning, is a message that could also be important for us.

Rather than giving the disciples a guidebook, a project plan, a set of principles or a set of goals to be achieved through their own strength and striving, Jesus called them into a Friendship.

We do not walk alone. We are given to one another, gathered into fellowships journeying together as a People born, nourished, and sustained by communion with this Presence, this Friend. And this One is waiting to speak—if we are willing—into our condition now, just as this same Friend reached George Fox in his desperation, yearning, and despair—and just as this same Spirit reached Myron and me that day on the pier.

So: Becoming the Quakers the world needs.

A great blessing of my life has been to be taught and inspired by the faith and witness of Cuban Friends, relationships that have been kindled through the Bridge of Love between Friends in our yearly meetings in Cuba and New England. While I mourn the continuing political callousness, inertia, and fear that prevents our being together in person, I am grateful to understand that some Friends from Cuba have been able to join us remotely during the activities of this week, and to know that some are with us online tonight. One of the people who has been an encouragement and an anchor for me in times of struggle and doubt is my Friend William.

William and I are close to the same age, and in our opportunities together over the years we have recognized in each other kindred spirits, resonant calls from the Lord to encourage and build up our covenant people in each of our contexts, as part of the wider body of Friends in the times we have been given.

Years ago, Robin Mohr and I traveled in the ministry to La Paz to participate in the training for Latin American Friends serving as part of the Traveling Ministry Corps. We were joined by Friends from Central and South America and the Caribbean, including William, who traveled from Cuba to participate.

Late one night while we were there, William and I were walking in the streets of the city. Out of the stillness, William shared that he was carrying a message from the Lord that he knew I also needed to hear. This was the message: “It’s time to gather those who are willing to go with the Lord to Gethsemane”.

A few words now about Gethsemane, so we’re all on the same page. Gethsemane is the name of a place just outside the city of Jerusalem in the New Testament. On what is called the Mount of Olives. It’s described as a garden of olive trees. The place appears in some form in each of the four gospels as the place Jesus goes with the disciples just before his arrest.

Taken together, these accounts make clear that the location of Gethsemane, and what happens there, play a pivotal role in the gospel narrative as a whole. So: what happens in Gethsemane?

I’d like to pause here for a moment to talk about olive trees and the fruits they bear.

Olive trees grow and thrive in dry places, under conditions of hardship in which other trees would wither. Their trunks are thick and twisted. Olive trees grow through endurance and steadfastness, in the exhausting heat, through the winds and storms of winter. Even when their trunks are cut to the ground, they can grow back. They can live for a really long time. Olive trees can seem to take forever to bear fruit—but the fruit will come. They are a symbol of steadfastness and resilience, even in these terrible times in the lands where Jesus was born.

The fruits of the olive tree- Olives- only grow on new growth, so pruning is necessary after each harvest. It’s only after loss and hardship that the new life comes. They must remain on the tree to ripen before being picked; separated from the body from which they have grown, they will not mature.

Great quantities of olives are pressed together under enormous weight to yield their oil, with countless uses: to heal and sustain life, to bring light, to preserve beauty, to nourish bodies, to cleanse and anoint and baptize the living and the dead.

In households around the world, olive oil is common, ever present at our table—the place of hospitality where we are welcomed, nourished in relationships, and fed.

In the language Jesus spoke, the place where olives are pressed has a name. You may remember it from before: That name is Gethsemane.

So back to the story:
Immediately after the last supper—right after he first calls the disciples “Friends”—Jesus walks out the door, into the night, to Gethsemane. And the disciples follow him.

In the garden, Jesus asks a few of them to pray—that they might sustain their attention on God, and not fall into temptation. Moving a short distance further off, but still where they can keep him in their sight, he begins to pray. The prayers Jesus prays, here in Gethsemane, bring us to the heart of the spiritual journey, to the depths of suffering and the human condition, and to the Way into which God invites us.

Knowing all that was to come, Jesus bared his heart in vulnerability. Pouring out his spirit to the Lord in prayer in the bitter watches of the night, tears falling like drops of blood on the broken ground, Jesus offered a living example of the ultimate surrender to love, of surrender for love, even and especially when that surrender, that willingness rose from the abyss of despair, disillusionment, violence, and death. As he prepared to lay down his life to reveal the world’s captivity to violence, and to offer the world an invitation to liberation and joy beyond imagination, he set an example of willingness for the disciples to follow. “If it is possible—Abba, Father—let this cup pass from me. And yet, not my will, but thy will be done.”

And in response, the ones he had just called to be his Friends fell asleep. In the hours and days to come, they disobeyed him, betrayed him, and abandoned him. To make this clear: they did not just happen to be distracted. They were not just insufficiently devoted to their spiritual exercises. The first Friends in the garden of Gethsemane were traitors.

When the soldiers came to arrest Jesus, the disciples fled. They abandoned him, denied him and disobeyed his instructions. And Jesus knew it would happen, told them it would happen, and loved and forgave them anyway. Through the wrenching violence of his arrest, torture, and crucifixion. Through the lonely desperation of absence, terror, and death. And through the amazement and joy of his return to them, bearing in himself the forgiveness and unshakeable love they had been offered all along.

For generations, Friends have read the Scriptures with an understanding that the events described do not only speak to historical events, they also give language for our present experience in our journey with God. And so for us tonight Gethsemane is a real place, a place in this story from our past, and—if we allow it—it is also a spiritual place, a condition of the heart.

Gethsemane is a place in-between—between the tragedies and failings of our past and the mystery of our future made possible by joy. Being willing to go to Gethsemane is welcoming vulnerability and brokenheartedness, and finding within it that we are standing on unshakeable ground, not because there will not be death, disillusionment and grief—there will be! And yet, we may abandon, but we will never be abandoned.

This place is always available to us in worship, where we can wait and watch with our eyes on the Teacher. There, we can be certain that as those first Friends did in the garden, we will fall asleep, that we will get distracted, that we will find ourselves having abandoned, in our fear and striving and confusion, even our most heartfelt aspirations and commitments to a life in faith.

And, in every moment, the garden of Gethsemane waits for us again, a memory that we are called to be Friends by the One who loved us first. We are invited on this journey by the One who knew that we could not understand fully yet, and who invites us for who we are now, and for who, in this shared fellowship, we might discover ourselves as becoming.

Beyond Gethsemane, as the sun puts the shadows to flight, there is the world. And it is for the world—which always includes us, but is not limited to us—that we are called, gathered, and sent. Ultimately, Gethsemane is a birthplace, a womb from which God is giving birth to a New Creation.

We live in a Gethsemane time. So much of the striving of the 20th and the first years of the 21st century, the hubris of ideology and pride and selfishness, is giving way to exhaustion and hopelessness and distraction. We and so many of the people around us are tired, burdened, borne down by the weight of suffering, the exhaustion of our human failings and dreams unfulfilled. In so many ways, we’re returning to the same realization as those early Friends. We are recognizing that we cannot save ourselves.

Rufus Jones knew about this essential experience of disillusionment and unknowing as a foundation of spiritual resilience. He wrote, “If you have not clung to a broken piece of your old ship in the dark night of the soul, your faith may not have the sustaining power to carry you through to the end of the journey.” And this condition of the heart is what we discover in Gethsemane.

We are like olives. The Religious Society of Friends is like an olive tree, and the fruits of the Spirit born from lives lived in this Friendship, are like the olive oil pressed from our willing hearts. And so, let us go to Gethsemane, the place where the olives are pressed.

To go with the Lord to Gethsemane is to stand at the threshold, though our bodies may quake, with eyes and ears and hands and hearts wide open to the stirrings, the springtime of this new world. This Hope reaches out, not just to move through policies and programs, through social movements and economic choices, through social services and schools and feeding programs, but to reach and forgive and free even the secret desires of the heart. “For the Creation waits with eager longing for the revealing of the children of God.”

We cannot yet know what is within us—as the disciples did not know, when they went to the garden with their Friend, what oil of love and forgiveness their lives would bear.

But there is one thing needful: the willingness to go together to the oil press. No one ever pressed a solitary olive. This is not about being saved as separate, about our own individual spiritual journeys and fulfillment. It’s about being part of the Friendship through which God’s anointing continues to come into the world. The Good News is not that we are great or special or holy. It’s that we are a fellowship of forgiven traitors, a society becoming Friends.

So, who are the Quakers the world needs?

The Quakers the world needs are those who are willing to go with the Lord to Gethsemane. Vulnerability. Tenderness. Resilience. Humility. Abiding. Patience. Mystery. Presence.

The Quakers the world needs are human beings alive in Friendship, bearers in our living of a Hope that comes to us from the shores beyond the ocean of despair.

And once again, we are being invited to rediscover this Friendship that embraces the whole of our lives, as relevant in the pasture as in the protest line; on the factory floor and in the hospital, in the art studio and the marketplace, on the streets and in the wilderness, at the border and in the heartland, at the bedside of a dying loved one or a newborn stranger, in the halls of government as much as in the hearth and home.

There is no playbook, there is no recipe, no rigid doctrine or program for transformation; there are are no “ten easy steps”. We don’t know the specifics of what the end will look like, or the details of the plan. We aren’t given a “where”, a “what”, or a “when”. But there is a Who: There is a Presence, a Friend who can meet, shape, and guide us. And there is a How: There is a Way.

The Friendship that begins at the threshold of Gethsemane ends in amazement and joy. May we be given the courage to follow—that in each new and continuing birth of this humble power, the world might be cleansed, healed, anointed, through the oil of this Grace pressed from wounded and wandering hearts.

Very soon now, we will return in body, and in our minds and hearts, to our own homes and neighborhoods, to our own responsibilities. And what will be different? Where will we invest our attention, in the time we have been given?

As we turn again to each daily act of faithfulness, as we go together into the world anew, how will our lives make visible the Hope that inspires us? What fruits will be borne from this journey?

Where does this Friendship lead?

Friends: Come and see.

FWCC-COAL Report on Working with Right Sharing of World Resources

by Karen Gregorio de Calderon, Coordinator for COAL-FWCC

Right Sharing of World Resources (RSWR), a Quaker nonprofit, came to Guatemala from May 23-29, 2022 to investigate the potential for doing projects in Latin America and using Guatemala as a pilot project. For FWCC-COAL, it was beneficial for us to be a part of the working process for this visit because one of our objectives is to work on joint projects with a community improvement focus with Quaker organizations that wish to do this work in Latin American countries.

RSWR was for many years a program of the Friends World Committee for Consultation, but has now been an independent organization for over 20 years. RSWR works with marginalized women, offering them seed capital so that they can start their own businesses and become productive women, thus changing the lives of themselves and their families. This project would bring great benefits to the people of Guatemala. 

How would work be done in Guatemala?

RSWR would work in conjunction with the COOSAJO Savings and Credit Cooperative located in Esquipulas, Chiquimula in eastern Guatemala. With this institution, the pilot project could be executed in the eastern region of the country. The staff of the Cooperative had the opportunity to learn who Quakers are worldwide and the work that Quakers do.

It is important to emphasize that the cooperative already carries out community work in the region with women, the pilot project would be a further development of their work. Two field technicians would be hired, who would form and train the women’s groups and accompany them in their training process, which is similar to RSWR’s work in Sierra Leone and India.

What activities were carried out during the visit?

  • Meetings with the management of the Guatemalan institution COOSAJO, to learn more about its work, its achievements and its values.
  • Meeting with the middle managers of the institution to share information about the projects and both organizations.
  • Meeting with the COOSAJO Board of Directors. We introduced FWCC and RSWR.
  • Meetings with leading employees of the institution: To learn about their testimony, their achievements and how the institution has been part of the change in their lives with the value of inclusion of women.
  • Field visits to the villages, where we were able to share with women who need to be taken into account and be benefited.
  • Meeting with young women leaders: to learn about the work COOSAJO has done with them, providing study scholarships, scholarships to study English, etc.

What did COAL-FWCC contribute during the RSWR visit to Guatemala?

  • Lodging
  • Food for two people.
  • General orientation on the region to be worked in (Statistical data and cultural information)
  • General information on Quakers in Guatemala, how they are organized and where they are most concentrated in the country and how Quakers work in this area.
  • Review of the information in PowerPoint and translation of the same, to present it in Spanish to the organization. Focus on the objectives with correct Spanish vocabulary.
  • Intervention in meetings, when it was necessary to make the idea of ​​RSWR clear.
  • Support in decision-making processes when help was required.
  • Clarification of ideas
  • Accompany RSWR in each planned meeting, to support them in these processes (with the language, with small translations, synthesize the information, etc.)
  • Lead and facilitate scheduled meetings, to obtain the necessary information from each group.
  • Work meetings (RSWR-FWCC-COAL) at the end of the day to draw conclusions and learn from each scheduled activity.
  • Coordinate and manage meetings with Quakers in the region
  • Coordinate visits to the churches in the region
  • Coordinate a visit to the largest Friends campus in the Region. National Friends Church.
  • And the most important thing is that due to the support that can be provided by COAL and the Quakers in the region, Guatemala is a potential country for RSWR to start a pilot project in Latin America and that could later be extended to other countries.

What benefit do local Quakers have with this project?

  • Job opportunity: One of the benefits is that they will be considered in the process of hiring field facilitators. In other words, when the call to hire people is launched, it will also be sent to the Quakers in the region so that they can apply.
  • Opportunity for the women of our churches: The women of our Friends Churches will also have the opportunity to be taken into account, to provide them with seed capital, according to the RSWR processes.

What did COAL achieve during the RSWR visit?

  • First, connecting the affiliated and non-affiliated yearly meetings.

During RSWR’s visit, representatives and leaders from our affiliated and unaffiliated Yearly Meetings were invited to a meeting. At the meeting, the work of FWCC, the work of COAL, the future plans and an invitation to work together were announced. In addition, the RSWR project was presented to them, as a fulfillment of the mission and objectives of FWCC, making our slogan a reality: Connecting friends, crossing cultures and changing lives. This meeting was fruitful; we were together in harmony sharing the love of God that unites us.

 Among attendees were:

  • Ambassadors Friends Monthly Meeting, represented by Susy Ramirez
  • Holiness Friends Yearly Meeting: With the participation of two representatives to FWCC, Teresa de Hernandez and Abner Garcia. In addition, 4 women leaders from the different churches of the yearly meeting participated.
  • National Friends Church: It was represented by its president Rigoberto Vargas and by 3 more members of one of the churches. That they are also part of the Shalom Jiréh Organization, who distributed the funds that FWCC collected, for the victims of Hurricanes Eta and Iota
  • We also achieved the participation of two disabled women entrepreneurs, who have not been supported by other organizations.
  • Total, we achieved attendance of 16 people.

All attendees were pleased and grateful for having been invited to the meeting and expressed their desire to be taken into account in the process of this project or others that we can work together as a region and as a church through FWCC.

What potential do we have after the RSWR visit to develop other projects with the Guatemalan institution COOSAJO for the benefit of local Quakers and society in general?

  • The institution has community development programs, with established processes.
  • Provide entrepreneurship training
  • They carry out projects to take care of the environment
  • They design training processes according to the needs of the projects to be worked on.
  • Provide scholarships to people with limited resources.
  • They have an agreement with the US embassy for young people who want to study English in a free program. This with the purpose of curbing migration, since Chiquimula is a department bordering Honduras and El Salvador vulnerable to the formation of migrant caravans. There are many bilingual youth who benefited from these programs.
  • Recruit new interpreter volunteers who already have command of the English language and who serve as interpreters among the international cooperatives.

Conclusions:

  • FWCC has the opportunity to start a closer relationship with this institution and manage benefits that are possible for our Quaker community. In this way, achieve that the yearly meetings have something in common and gradually break down the communication barrier between them.
  • An important point to emphasize is that the yearly meetings are interested in working together on projects for the benefit of the community.

[Translation by Diane Zappas and Robin Mohr]

Declaration of the Yearly Meeting of the Friends Church (Quakers) in Cuba

Peace is a desire and a necessity for all human beings. It is an essential condition for our personal and communal well-being. For the current moment in Cuba, marked by a crisis situation that affects the most sensitive areas of citizens’ lives, it is becoming something urgent.

Quakers, inspired by the teachings of Jesus, also seek to live and promote peace, through alternative ways, based on the principle of non-violence, to carry out civil justice and work within society to repair wrongs or errors.
Quakers believe in the Peace of Jesus. This Peace is not like what the world gives (John 14:27), from positions of power that exclude the voice of the least in the Kingdom. From this perspective, we Quakers know a Virtue that takes away the occasion of all war, and consequently, we do not support any way to solve conflicts that involves the use of force.

We therefore advocate for dialogue and for our authorities to recognize the tension and overwhelm of a people that feel vulnerable due to the precariousness of their economy, their health and their public services.
Likewise, we consider that the government must promote alternatives to violence in the face of other sectors of the people that, for various reasons, are fueled by positions of hatred that are encouraged from abroad and that in the current context of the crisis that we are experiencing, become breeding grounds for the emergence of violent demonstrations with unpredictable consequences.

We strongly encourage all the implicated parties to seek paths of dialogue that lead to peace and understanding in the future and the future and well-being of our country.

We desire and we work for peace and solidarity. We pray that all people may enjoy this blessing.

This is the time to open spaces for dialogue in the search for an answer to dissatisfaction and a solution to our problems. Let us all seek a common path that leads us to well-being and peaceful coexistence. Conflicts, if we address them with non-violent alternatives, are opportunities to find a peace that shelters all Cubans.

Shared by the Yearly Meeting of the Friends Church in Cuba, July 2021